I was a male?

Last night I dreamed myself giving orders to a woman when she was driving. Vividly, I remember myself as a male.

Let me guess: the woman driving was your husband! ;)
Your husband has recently been a bad driver (the way he drives his and your life).
I think he should be spanked: take the wheel for a few days until he comes back to his senses!

Yes, you're perfectly right. He should be spanked.

Don't spank him too hard, ok?

I remember a long time ago, I dreamed I was a girl.... and I liked it a lot. The feeling was: at last God has granted me my wish! When I woke up, the first thing I did is check what kind of genitals I had: I was disappointed to find something hanging there! ;)

That was a long time ago, when I was a teen. And I am not (and was not) gay!

Weird dream.